Mentors can open doors, share their networks, and support you in securing a successful future or helping you even know what you want your future to really look like. Luckily, there are mentors all around campus and your larger community who are here to support you. Here are some tips for seeking mentorship—whether you have clear goals, or are just starting to imagine what’s possible:
1) Determine what type of mentoring you’re looking for
Different mentors can support you with different things. From professional development and career guidance to building confidence or industry insights, there are a variety of mentoring areas you can seek. It’s okay if you’re not 100% certain of where to start, a mentor can support you with that too!
2) Explore who could be a mentor for you
Look around campus and your community. Are there any people or projects who spark your interests or who you admire? Considering who you know is a great place to start in exploring your interests and who could provide you with academic, career, and personal guidance.
- Is there a class you have enjoyed with a professor or instructor?
- Do you have a job where there are connections to others who could offer direction or support?
- Or, are you looking for a peer who can provide guidance for how they did something awesome?
- You could also be looking to connect with an alumni in your field or with similar experiences to you.
3) Prepare to ask for mentorship
Make some notes about what you want your mentoring relationship to look like. It doesn’t have to be in-depth, but enough information so a mentor can best support you.
- How are you connected? Remind them of where you met, share a bit about yourself and your interests.
- What are you hoping to get help with? What do you want to become or achieve? Be clear about what you are looking for so they know if this is something they can provide.
- Are there goals you are working towards or need help mapping out? It’s okay if you are just getting started.
- Consider the benefit for them. Mentorship is relational and we all benefit from strong connections.
4) Go!
Now it’s time to use the information you prepared as a guide. Say hello to your prospective mentor in person, by email, or even a call. Ask them when they’re willing and available to join you in a mentoring relationship.
5) Get started with a mentorship structure/schedule and goals
Success! You’ve found a great mentor who’s agreed to meet with you. Time to take the initiative and set up your first meeting. Ask them when they are available, such as office hours. Ask when and how often to meet. Don’t be afraid to ask to meet monthly, or even just once. Consider sending a follow-up email with details you’ve discussed about meeting or suggest times when you’re available to meet next.
5 ½) Connect with an alumni mentor on BroncoLink
Boise State has thousands of alumni–some of whom are in your field and may have similar experiences or interests as you. Consider connecting with mentors both on campus and in the field!